Its almost impossible to go through our entire live, without being dumped or dump some one.
The pain is almost unbearable - Right?
Recently one of my best male friends got dumped by his girfriend, through many years.
I tried the best I could to help him, but when he was very sad or drunk he did the very opposite and made her even more upset with him.
so I decided to make some podcasts with my advices, so he could hear them - BEFORE he contacted his Ex.
Well that turned out to be a great idea - he had all my podcasts on his iphone, and everytime he was tempted to do something stupid - like calling her in the middle of the night - totally hammered - instead he listened to one of my podcast. today he is back with his Ex girlfriend and they are very happy.
Now if you Have Just Broke Up - And Want To get Your Ex Back - then you should listen to my podcasts - they are completely Free.
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You are also more than welcome to leave your comments on the blog and tell me your results.
Best Wishes
Tina Lindgren
Tags: Breakuphelp, Getting Back With your ex, heartbroken, how to get your ex back, The magic of making up, Your Ex back
As I promised in my last article, this one will be about –
“How to find the best marketer to follow in your on line business.”
Making money on line and being an Internet marketer, is almost like doing sports.
Lets say you want to become a professional football player. When you start on your very first team (For newbies, that is) You don’t want David Beckham to coach you – I mean what a waste!!!
He knows all the juicy details of football, but you don’t understand them YET. A lot of other coaches with No Super Star status, could easily teach you all the basics in football – in fact they would probably do it much better than Beckham – because they are experienced and trained to do exactly that – Teaching Newbies – Later on, of course, AFTER you have taken action and practiced , what your newbie teachers taught you – then a weeks practice with Beckham would be like a dream.
You would fully enjoy every little tip, he would give to you and best part is, Now you would be able to understand and implement, all his gorgeous tips into your play.
Its no different when you want to find a marketer to follow. If you are new to on line marketing you need to find marketers, who promote them selves as “newbie coaches”.
Don’t ever believe the “total autopilot automatic money stream in minutes” programs. Save your money and spend them on a coach or some quality E books instead.
So how to find the right coach you probably ask yourself right now? Well in my humble opinion the “upcoming stars” tends to deliver very high quality. They are also very keen to build a good relationship with their customers, therefore they are often much more helpful and service minded than the really big gurus, that have thousands and thousands of raving fans.
This year on my seminar in London, I met up with some of the same marketers from last year.
And they are making HUGE progress, some of them very fast indeed – I’ll tell you how to recognize them – they are getting more and more passionated each and every day – because their business strategies are finally working – and it shows very clearly. They almost glow, red chicks (No just kidding) but they are very positive and very eager to discuss and evaluate. Thats how you recognize them – but of course you need to get of your duff, and attend seminars, to actually meet them. They are the perfect match for you, if you have managed the basic, decided what kind of business you want to be in. Try to talk to them – If they are passionated about affiliate marketing and that is the alley you want to enter then start there. Maybe later you want to explore the SEO area, then I can promise you, they know just the right people – just like I do know. I’ll tell you every time I come home from a seminar, I suddenly have business cards for upcoming copywriters, programmers, SEO experts, and what have you. Brilliant just brilliant.
So don’t be afraid to shop around - I have my favorites, that I follow, but I always have room for new ones, if they deliver High quality products or coaching products.
Best wishes,
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Tags: coach, gurus, online marketers, seminars
well, I am back again from this years Focus Seminar in London UK.
This year I noticed a couple of very important issues, that I want to share with you.
The first issue I’ll cover is about making progress in your business.
After this years seminar I came home with a great feeling – the great feeling of how much I had accomplished in one single year.
Last year, everything that was presented on stage was completely new to me.
Talk about total brain melt down, when I got on the plane back to Denmark.
This year I didn’t have any problems what so ever to follow the tactics, the strategies and the tips, that was given from all the great speakers. And even better I got confirmed that, I am on the right path, and I have taken all the right steps to move my business forward. WOW what a cool feeling, that is.
This great feeling of my big progress, got even better when I talked to last years fellow marketers .
When I told them, that I had created “selling Scruffys”, my very own product – they all applauded me, and I Got a lot of new contacts, to share ideas, spare, and do business with.
I know you read a lot of sales promotion, where big gurus talk about the morning they discovered a lot of money in their bank account, as the day it all happened to them.
Well, I am sure it is almost the same feeling as winning the lottery – and we can all imagine how great and fantastic a feeling that must be.
Well, I find it even more important to celebrate every little step you take towards your success on line. That will keep you on a realistic journey forward, and it will push you on wards.
If you always focus on “what You need to do” - it gets negative and you see it as a boring task – you need to do.
If you on the other hand challenge your self, maybe by saying “ Now I will build a blog”.
Then See this task “building a blog” like a challenge - just like when you buy a a new table from Ikea – You just start following the instructions, and some of them might not be clear, and you have to try a couple of times, or even ask for help, but you want that table collected, so you keep going .
Implement the same attitude, towards the steps, you need to take in your business, and you’ll surprised what a change of mindsetting - can do for you.
Remember you promised yourself to take this challenge , so move on, ask again, move on, try again, and suddenly I got your self a blog.
Celebrate it, talk about it, show it - Be proud - you did well. Next challenge – build a website or Set up an auto responder or ……..and so on. Also be realistic about the time it takes to accomplish a smooth running long term business. Rome wasn’t built in one day Right 
In my next article - I’ll focus on how to find the best marketer to guide you.
To Your Progress!
Tina Lindgren
PS: Talk again soon - and feel free to leave acomment - I love comments
Tags: Celebrate, Focus, making progress, Seminar, Tina Lindgren
The Jam Jar and the coffee…
When things in your life seems overwhelming – when 24 hours per day just isn’t sufficient, when remember the Jam Jar and The coffe….
A professor was standing in front of his philosophy class with some items in front of him. When class started he brought out , without saying a word, a very big and empty Jam jar and started to fill it with golf balls.
When he had done that, he asked the class if the jar was full and they all agreed that it was now full.
Then the professor pulled out a box of pebbles and began to pour them into the jar.
He shaked the jar gently so the pebbles spreaded between the golf balls. Afterwards he then asked the class again if the jar was now full. The class agreed that it was now full.
After this the professor brought out a box of sand and started to pour it into the jar. The sand filled out the remaining cavities in the jar.
Again he asked the class if the jar was now full. The class answered unanimously “YES”.
The professor then made two cups of coffee and poured it into the jar.
Which effectively filled out the cavities between the grains of sand.
The students laughed……
“Alright” said the professor, when the laughter calmed down.
“ Now imagine that this jar represent your life. The golf balls are the important things – your family, partner, children, health, friends and favorite passions – the things that even though all other things in your life got lost and only these things were left - still would make your life complete. The pebbles are the other things, that matters – such as job, house, car etc. The sand is all the other little things.”
The Professor went on “ If you pour the sand into the jar first, there will be no room for all the golf balls nor the pebbles.
The same applies in life. If you spend all your energy and time on the little insignificant things, you will never have room for the things, that are the most important for you.
Pay attention on the things , that are critical for your happiness. Play with your children, take take of your health, invite your partner out to a dinner. Take another round at the golf course.
There will always be time to clean the house and fix the drains. Take care of the golf balls first – the things that really matters. Get control of the priorities – the rest is nothing but sand.”
One of the students raised his hand and asked what the coffee represented.
The professor smiled ”I am glad you are asking. It is just to show you that no matter how full your life seems to be, there is always room for a cup of coffee with a friend.
Wise words if you ask me – what do you think ?
Regards
Tina Lindgren
Tags: philosophy, Tina Lindgren
For the second year in a row I will be attending the UK edition of the Focus Marketing Seminar.
“Is it worth the money” You may ask?
OH - Yes Indeed - Its the best investment you can make in your business -
In fact its a sure winner !
Not Many Internet marketers have a lot of contact with other marketers on a daily basis.
Imagine being surrounded by like minded people, for 3 full days and nights!
The Focus Marketing Seminar is an excellent opportunity to do just that.
The advantages in terms of what you can learn, and the contacts you can make in Live Events are priceless.
If you are worried that people will not talk to you because you are all new to Internet Marketing,
then you need not worry -
Everybody respects you for attending the seminar - That proves you are a serious marketer and that you take action to become successfull!
Who knows - Just because you are new or you just haven’t had the big success YET - doesn’t mean you don’t have any idea, and maybe you just need an experienced partner to help you carry it out -
Or maybe you have certain skills that could be very usefull for a Marketer in his project, to the success for both of you!
Also I’ll like to mention that a lot of of the attendees I spoke to last year, were still having a day-job and managing their home business in their sparetime - eager to take the next needed steps to progress in their business.
Going to a seminar is the biggest step forward in your business you can take, if you ask me.
You get the chance to find Jv partners without much effort - If you have a good chat with somebody and you exchange businesscards, then its much easier to ask them to become become JV partners later on -
Everybody needs Jv partners, to speed up their business. Best part is that everybody at these seminars knows this, and everybody is open for new businesses.
Have you noticed how many products that are being launched by several people together!
Many of these partnerships were born on Live events - Often in the bar
Just come as you are - be open minded and don’t be afraid to hang out in the bar - That’s where friendships are being made - And Internet friends are the best JV partners, you can ever wish for.
I don’t think there are any other sure methods that can propel your home business forward faster, than meeting and starting business relationships with other internet marketers.
Actually I got the idea of making my SellingScruffys collection, talking to copy writers complaining that they couldn’t find such a Scruffy package, on the entire internet! Bingo - A Great idea, served on a silverplate to me, last year at the focus Marketing seminar…!!!
Maybe now you see why I am so enthusiastic about it.
I can’t wait to see, what will happen this year.
I strongly encourage you to attend this years UK Focus Marketing Seminar on October 17-19. It’s a great event, in a very relaxed atmosphere, And of course, it would be great to meet You in person.
If you spot me, Do come over and say Hi - I’ll be happy to meet you!
For more information on the UK Focus Marketing Seminar 2008, click the image below.
I sincerely hope to see you!
Tina Lindgren
Sellingscruffys.com
Tags: Brittpack, Fokus, Live Event, London, Marketing, Seminar, Tina Lindgren, UK
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